Tuesday, December 8, 2009

A Women's Tears

The power of the tears which can be the strength of a women’s soul.

As she thinks and sorts out the crisis in her life.

Wikipeia definition:

“To cry is to shed tears as a response to an emotional state in humans. The act of crying has been defined as "a complex secretomotor phenomenon characterized by the shedding of tears from the lacrimal apparatus, without any irritation of the ocular structures"...
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Other words, the shedding of tears without it being an irritate

Randolph Cornelius (1986) systematically analyzed the content of popular articles on weeping in the press from 1850 to 1985 and found a major theme was that crying was considered an important means of releasing physiological tensions;

The Women's cry.

A. Blame - If she has experience any low self esteem she will cry the
“ How dumb I am.,,,,,,,” or the

“How Could I cry…….” Then she will cry for help, to get thru it.

If spiritual, she will cry to Father of Unlimited love. She will recognize her worth. This is how, strength is gained!

The Phenomenal

In the beginning of the end of cry and After, crying, talking out loud to themselves,
When the quietness, and soft whispers of sops start to disappear. You will then you hear and listen to the voice deep within. If you have a spiritual background or of high esteem, you will remember that you are not alone, that all things are possible, your hurts are short lived. Amazing how scientist are puzzled about this strength in tears.

When tears fail:

If you don't have that foundation, you will not the ability to stand, one breaks down, become deeply depress, accepting that she deserves it, internalizing miss information, drawing on that staying stuck. defeated…but your are not!

'Having a good cry':

“ there are others for whom crying brings no sense of relief, release or resolution. They may cry for long periods of time with no appreciable change in the way they feel; they may even say they feel worse or 'washed out' ….
Taken from the aricle: “ When Tears Fail” Emontional Processing Org

B. Family Security - Wellness of family and friends

When a women cries, about her children, she cries and ask for help for them. When you see them going down a wrong path, when they get in trouble with life and they don't know how to get out and you really can't help, crying relives the pain. You pass on blessings from your outcry, you spin your world around, you know, that speaking words of that reflect positive return of results, it can happen quickly, or take some time, but it will happen, greatness comes into their life.

"Whenever you find tears in your eyes, especially unexpected tears,
it is well to pay the closest attention. They are not only telling the secret
of who you are, but more often than not of the mystery of where you have come from and are summoning you to where you should go next.....”


Frederick Buechner - :"Whistling in the Dark

C. Happiness - This cry is one of the best of a woman. when the tears of being ok with your surroundings: Shedding tears, because you see an improvement in your life, or you see a family member improve or friends, you feel good things when crying is brought by receiving good news, or what you have secretly prayed for and it manifest itself, crying for thankfulness. Gifts of kindness....

The SecretoMotor:

After, a women cries, she has cleansed her soul and now ready to take action. The infinite power within her kicks in and nothing can stop her decision to move on.

If she is not spiritual, but has a high self esteem or if she is spiritual, then she will have the confidence to move on.

Unhealthy Tears
If one has a low self esteem, and accepts the self talk of unworthiness, they will not reach that level by themselves, they will need a support system of some kind, counseling, being making them aware of the power as a women, the spiritual gifts and someone helping you to realize that you are so worthy to be........later on that subject.

Tears are not all bad, it relieves pain, it humbles us to received, when the storm, settles when we become quiet, using positive affirmations , kicking in your infinite power within, the world around you better just watch out you are equipped with your power and strength..

Gwendolyn Davis
www.getnotice.ws
www.gwendolyndavis.ning.com












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